Morning Terry,
Your post reminded me very much of the farmer going to his mate to borrow a plow along the journey he lost the plot on knocking on the guys door it opened and the remark made and you can stick your plow.....
I have no doubt in this case honour is satisfied your very dear friend now has a treasure from her best friends crafted pen, some forumites got choked up some just choked.
Never doubt the power of a pen in the hands of a receiver or lose the plot on the way making something special.
When I read your story I straightway congratulated you for overcoming a natural desire not to go ahead with this pen kit also knowing a happy wife is a happy home. On this basis what a beautiful pen your wife chose and you delivered.
You are a good man Terry.
Kind regards Peter.